Some men have very little hair on their chest. Some have a rug. Male models have a hairless chest and women drool over shirtless pictures of them in the magazines but does this mean that women prefer it that way? Now I realise that no two women are the same but I want to find out what the general feeling is. Have your say and VOTE in my poll! :]
Guest
I don’t think it should matter what a person looks like, if you meet a lovely guy, then it’s him you fall for, not whether he has hair/no hair on his chest, or indeed any other insignificant details. I always say it’s the smile I see first and the smile I keep looking at :)
Jai'me Jan
True, and that’s how it should be but so many people judge others on all these little things about appearances. In an ideal world it would’t matter. :]
Guest
Not all people. It’s just hard to find the one who wont. I used to worry about details, and now I live in a bubble. If people like it, then super. If they don’t, thats their issue. It’s not easy, because you do have to put up with people who question you, or worse, judge you before actually getting to know you, but its about doing what makes you happy. The important people stick around. :)
Jai'me Jan
Yeah it’s painfully hard, especially in London because it’s such a fashion and image conscious city. My ex-girlfriend was one of those people who didn’t care about these things. I think it’s a lot easier to overlook some of the superficial things when you have feelings for someone – especially if you are in love because if you truly love someone then you accept them for who they are. It’s in the beginning when you see someone new and don’t quite have feelings yet but find them physically attractive – I think at this stage most people are bound to be fickle and picky. I do agree that the important people stick around. :)